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The biggest request people ask of us…   "How do we write our wedding vows?"


There are a a few things that you should keep in mind when you write your own wedding vows:
Keep your wedding vows concise, yet meaningful.  Too many people will overload a wedding ceremony with verbiage that is redundant and overkill the meaning behind a wedding vow. Don't torture your wedding guests with a long wedding ceremony!   We find it very interesting that the shorter the ceremony, the more guests come up to us afterwards and say, "Oh that was the best ceremony I've ever been to." 

If you do write your own wedding vows from scratch, make sure that you are edited by somebody you trust. 

If you pick from our wedding vows you can simply pick the marriage ceremony that fits you, or choose bits of ceremonies that fit how you feel and then add in the wedding poems or wedding songs that move you. 

First, try reading what you've written out loud to a close friend or family member. Ideally, this person should be a good writer, and someone who knows your relationship. They may have good suggestions for you, or the simple act of reading it out loud could help you identify places where you can improve. Once you've worked out a final version, practice reading it on your own several times to make sure you are comfortable with it for your North Carolina wedding.

Memorize Or Read?
After you have accomplished the feat of writing wedding vows, the only decision left is whether to memorize or read your vows. But even if you memorize well, make sure that you bring a copy of your wedding vows (and give an extra copy to the best man or maid of honor) so that nerves won't spoil all of your hard work. Another option is to have the officiant lead you by saying a sentence and having you repeat it.



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